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8 Signs It May Be Time For Assisted Living in Federal Way

Posted by Jason Kitchel on Dec 31, 2014 10:30:00 AM

8 signs it may be time for assisted living in West SeattleFor many adult children living far from aging parents, the holidays can be an unwelcome reality check. Weekly or even daily telephone calls can keep you connected, but subtle, yet significant, changes can be hard to detect in a 10 minute conversation.

If you’ll be seeing your parents again after several months apart, here are some signs you might want to look for to determine if it’s time to start making plans for next steps.

If it appears your parents are continuing to do well living independently, so much the better. It’s always best to start a conversation about next steps before the need is urgent.

The reality is that if we live long enough, all of us will need help at some point. These eight warning signs from the Web site caregivers.com signs will help you determine if your loved ones have reached that point.

  • Letting things go around the house. For example, lots of clutter, piles of laundry, spoiled food, dying plants, dirty dishes that appear to have been sitting for a long time or overflowing trash.
  • Neglecting personal care. This can range from not shaving or bathing regularly to wearing dirty clothes.
  • Changes in personality. Becoming a bit slower or more mellow is one thing, but being depressed or withdrawn is another. Pay attention to whether your loved one is still socializing with friends and enjoying hobbies or activities that were once enjoyable.
  • Safety issues. This is a big one. Can your loved one still manage medications and doctor appointments? Are there any mobility issues? Are falls a concern?
  •  Changes in eating habits. Does it appear they are eating three meals a day? Is the refrigerator clean and stocked with healthy food, or is it empty or filled with expired or spoiled food? Is there a noticeable change in weight? Losing weight could mean they are having trouble preparing appetizing food, but gaining weight could mean they are filling up on sweets and aren’t getting the nutritious foods they need.
  • Overall cognitive decline. Behaviors that can be masked during a short phone conversation might be more apparent in person. For example, repeating stories, confusion following directions, trouble following a conversation, memory lapses about recent events.
  • Driving issues. Obviously an increase in traffic tickets is a problem, but look too for driving under (or over) the speed limit, tailgating, getting lost in familiar areas, increased dents or scrapes on the car.
  • Wrestling with finances. Watch for bills piling up, overdrawn bank accounts, final notices or calls from creditors, evidence they may have fallen victim to a scam, large volume of receipts or thank you letters from charitable organizations, or bills that have been paid multiple times.

If you loved one is experiencing any of these warning signs, now is a good time to start thinking about next steps. If you’d like to see what we have to offer at Village Green Retirement Campus, please contact us today for a personal tour. 

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